Why Arguments Repeat In Relationships

Why Arguments Repeat In Relationships

​You know the argument. The one that starts about the dishes, the schedule, the tone, the text message, the thing that was forgotten, or the thing that apparently has been mentioned “several times already, actually.” And then suddenly, somehow, you aren’t even talking...
When Your Spiritual Life No Longer Fits

When Your Spiritual Life No Longer Fits

There is a particular kind of loneliness that can happen when the beliefs, communities, practices, or answers that once held you no longer feel true. Maybe you still care about spirituality, but the old language feels tight. Maybe you have left a faith community and...
Healing Trauma From the Bottom Up

Healing Trauma From the Bottom Up

Sometimes we can talk about what happened and still feel like our body did not get the memo. We can understand the story. We can name the patterns. We can say, “That was not my fault,” and mean it. And still, our chest tightens, our stomach drops, our shoulders brace,...
Burnout Is Not A Personal Failure

Burnout Is Not A Personal Failure

How Your Nervous System Tries To Protect You Burnout can make you question yourself. You might wonder why you cannot keep up, why you feel so numb, or why the work you once cared about now feels impossible to face. But burnout is not a personal failure. It is not...